Hey guys ,
it’s been a while since I wrote…i did a poll about a week ago and it tied up that i should do both a vlog and a blog..so here i am.
well, today I just wanna talk about believing in your goals,self-worth and respecting oneself.
I’m gonna put a lot moral lessons into this and if my thoughts alter your opinion just drop a comment.
I’ve seriously had a dream even bigger than me that one day I’ll stand before a auditorium and preach to a congregation.It may seem super hilarious to some of you,but you know yet again…God will never put you up to something you cannot do.
Identify your potential and recognise the fuels that ignite it.My long term goal is to make sure I achieve this dream i keep having…not because i want to impress anyone but Because even God has seen that potential capable in me..i just need to unlock it.Back to you…what’s my point and what am i aiming at?
I’m saying no dream is bigger to be achieved.It might seem big when people start laughing at you terming it unrealistic..but deep down yourself you need to be aware that your dream is bigger than everyone who is trying to bring you down..I have not made it yet in life because I’m not where i have set my goals at but i can tell you one thing for free you going to have three friends supporting you,guiding you,motivating and inspiring you to be better and the other ninety-seven will just be there laughing and criticizing you like you can’t make it to be a better person..
Life is not a bed of roses I assure you that..It’s more like a cactus so to say..The content and importance of it is in it’s depth..Respect yourself to acknowledge that you deserve better goals,better achievements and greater sucess.Stop limiting yourself to the unlocking of your gifting and potentials with the “i can’t do that, no one in our family can do that,i don’t have connections” ,it’s all just pointless if you don’t put an effort in it.
“Start believing in yourself before I can even believe in you,so that even if you come to lay down a proposal for me i will openly take it up for consideration” is what my Boss tells me..and you know believe it or not it is true.
Once your confidence is at peak,no one is going to doubt your capability..because everyone is going to believe you can do it..Nothing on this entire earth boosts your self-worth and esteem like people believing in you and knowing you can do even what is dimmed impossible by others.
Be very bothered if you’re at a place of comfort at the moment,because success is continuous and its never ending..Wake up ,go and grind get that money right sis.Pay your bills,let no one distract you from your main dreams goals and objectives.Respect yourself so much to know that you owe it to you to make sure you achieve all this goals.Am vibing with someone? I hope so…
Learn the term good riddance.Once you acknowledge your worth there are certain things you’ll just never do out of self-respect and when they come your way you’ll have to get rid off them for the expense of your dremas.Understand the environment that you let dwell around you…what you are associated with is what you become…and sadly we can’t teach an old dog new tricks.>>.by that I mean even at your youth be cautious of the people you tend to relate with…because once the impact is made it’s hard to reverse…Your friends should be people who influence your thinking and judgement in a positive direction.Yearn for people who thirst for the same goals as you do if not higher goals…,because they can be your pacesetters.
Be very bothered by people who don’t correct you when they clearly see you do wrong.It’s either they don’t want to see you progressing or they are not headed in the same direction as you.honestly if I saw one of my friends do something wrong i’ll correct them on the spot to avoid future consequences.
Growing up with a single mum I’ve been taught all there is to be about being your own independent person,,but then again if you can find a person who is willing to join you to conquer those goals with you then join hands and do the best your potentials can amount to.okay okay!Here’s the catch…I tend to see women lose focus sometimes just because they got into a relationship with the wrong person..mehn!i’m gonna say for the last time….if you ain’t ready and settled for love,relationships and commitments then just let it be..Every single thing has its own timing.Get yourself a partner who’s motivating you to be more than what you are..not one who’s making you lazy and sleep on your job(getting your goals).Not ,i repeat not at any point should a man be the dictator of how you gonna earn your money…atleast not in this lifetime..even if you grind harder than him,its allowed sis because we are equal before God’s eyes…so go get that money right boo and if he doesn’t support your progress you know what to do.
Believe that you are cut out for the best. make your gaols and objectives aligned.You can only make it when you know how valuable you are and your worth.Respect yourself and only go for the best..because if you go for little that’s how people are going to relate to you.
BE YOUR OWN BRAND OF QUALITY.